Why does a person work hard all their life saving up for retirement? Is it just to sit around and do as little as possible, maybe to be served and cared for by someone else? Maybe you fall on the opposite end of the spectrum; you want to be adventurous and independent, the cool grandparent the grandkids want to come visit. Unfortunately, the likelihood of that happening decreases as the body becomes more weak and frail.
“I want to get healthy.” That’s what you’re supposed to say, right? But is that what you really want? At the end of the day, do you really want to be remembered as “she was really healthy”? Chances are, you want what health allows you to do. Maybe it is to be able to travel and be active out in nature or spend quality time with grandkids and family. To have mental clarity to innovate and be creative. To feel confident. Experience life.
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STOP FOCUSING ON HEALTH. START FOCUSING ON YOUR VALUES
Take a moment to imagine. Your doctor has told you that you need to exercise more.
Which scenario feels better?
Scenario A
Promising yourself you will start tomorrow (even though you’ve been saying this for the last 3 months) while staring in the mirror and reminding yourself how out of shape you are.
OR Scenario B
Noticing that yes, you haven’t been exercising. And then bringing in compassion. This year has been incredibly stressful for everyone. And then shifting your focus to your daughter, who is having her first baby. You picture being able to hold that baby with confidence; lifting her high above your head. The feeling of absolute joy then motivates you to start doing some arm strengthening to be able to do this!
Notice the difference? In the first and most popular scenario, the irony is, rarely is
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How to move forward:
- IDENTIFY YOUR VALUES What is it you care most about in life? What brings your life meaning?
- AVOID BEATING YOURSELF UP Setbacks are not defeat. Instead, often what we refer to as failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently. Move on and embrace the new beginning.
- SET A CLEAR VISION This vision should be aligned with your values. Rather than a weight loss goal, for example, your goal could be “to play soccer with my son.” Envision how life could be different if this was accomplished.
- SET YOURSELF UP FOR SUCCESS Set smaller, attainable goals that lead you in the right direction. Start even smaller than you think you should. Regularly achieving small goals helps keep you on track and cumulatively leads to long-
term results. - ELIMINATE OBSTACLES First identify the obstacles that will get in your way. Then make a plan. Don’t have enough time? Three hours is just 2.5 percent of your waking week. Don’t have the money? Six feet of space and a body weight routine are all you need. Most obstacles have solutions, but first you must choose to put yourself first.
- FIND ACCOUNTABILITY Recruit a workout wingman; or, for even more accountability, find a qualified fitness professional to motivate and guide you. Either way set an appointment and commit. Skipping just one workout increases your chance of missing the next one by 61 percent.
- CELEBRATE SUCCESS Reward yourself for a job well done. You reached a goal you set for yourself; as long as the reward doesn’t undo the success, go for it and enjoy. You earned it!
“I want to get healthy.” That’s what you’re supposed to say, right? But is that what you really want? At the end of the day, do you really want to be remembered as “she was really healthy”?
Chances are, you want what health allows you to do. Maybe it is to be able to travel and be active out in nature or spend quality time with grandkids and family. To have mental clarity to innovate and be creative. To feel confident. Experience life.
These are the things people care about. And in the pursuit of “health,” it is common that these are the very things that are put aside. Some may skip out on family events because they can’t ‘control themselves’ around Aunt Sally’s famous brownies. Or maybe, you opt out because you can’t find clothes that fit you, and don’t want to be seen.
In America’s push for health, we’ve become unhealthier (global pandemic aside) and more importantly, have a decreased quality of life. It turns out, the more we try to shame ourselves into exercising, or willpowering our way past the donuts, the further we get from our goals. Shame, guilt & will-
So what does work? We have found that focusing on values – the very things that light us up, will get us farther, faster. When we focus on what we care most about in life, health happens as a side effect.
